1. You are a still lake.
2. You do not have to be argumentative to get your way.
3. It is good to listen to what other people have to say.
4. People have reasons for doing what they do.
5. Everyone comes from a different place and background.
6. Not everyone shares your opinions.
7. Don't try to put those around you in boxes.
8. Try your best to make progress.
9. Try to benefit others around you.
10. Be flexible.
11. Be patient.
12. Communicate clearly and effectively.
13. Be honest about your needs and abilities.
14. Appreciate others for what they bring to the table.
15. Thank others for their contributions.
16. Do not judge others.
17. Do not lash out.
18. Accept the things you can't change.
These are the mottos I try to live by at work. Reading them everyday helps me to maintain perspective. What's on your "notes to self?"